Monday, September 29, 2008
Saturday, September 27, 2008
Monday, September 22, 2008
Abi is home!
If you didn't already know, or haven't seen the pictures, here is Abigail Lauren Mikow. She was born at 3:43am on Friday 9/19/2008. She was 9lbs 3oz. and 21 inches long.
Both Abi and Steph are doing well. We came home from the hospital around 4pm yesterday (9/21/208) and have now made it through our first night with little sleep.
Here are pictures for your viewing enjoyment! More info and pictures to come!
Both Abi and Steph are doing well. We came home from the hospital around 4pm yesterday (9/21/208) and have now made it through our first night with little sleep.
Here are pictures for your viewing enjoyment! More info and pictures to come!
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Timing
This week has been quite a rollercoaster of emotions. I never expected this week to be this hard on us.
We had an appointment on Tuesday for a Non-Stress Test at Clovis Community as a follow-up from last week's NST. Abi wasn't as active as they liked (not in a bad way) but they almost wanted to keep us at the hospital. There was no room at the hospital at the time so the doctor prescribed a lot of walking and for us to go to our already scheduled appointment that afternoon.
After the appointment we decided to follow through with our next NST on Wednesday morning. This was quite disappointing to say the least.
Today we had the NST and Abi is doing just fine. Praise God that she is doing fine and we have no worries at this point. There are no concerns today so they weren't as worried about getting us into the hospital today. On top of that there was no room and there was already one lady waiting to be induced. We were really really hoping to be kept at the hospital and not allowed to go home.
The end result is that our originally scheduled time to be induced has been moved up from Friday at 6AM to Thursday at 6PM. While this is only 12 hours sooner than originally planned, it is still better than nothing.
Now we wait and hope that there is room at the hospital tomorrow. We plan to arrive early in hopes that we'll be able to get it. Our prayer at this point is that the labor will start between now and when we go to the hospital so that they will let us stay.
I can't tell you how hard this week has been on me mentally. I'm ready for Abi to be here. It's been hard with the back and forth to the hospital and nothing coming out of it (and trying to work in between the different appointments). Steph is doing much better but is just as ready for Abi to be here. We pray that she will be with us soon so that we can move on. When we were told last week that we were scheduled to be induced this upcoming Friday I didn't think anything of it. Now, continually getting closer, it has been much tougher than I ever expected. It's more than just an appointment to have a routine procedure done. There are many more variables that can cause the situation to change many times each day.
We appreciate the prayers of everyone as we go through the next 48 hours. Hopefully by then we'll have pictures to post of Abi for everyone to see.
We had an appointment on Tuesday for a Non-Stress Test at Clovis Community as a follow-up from last week's NST. Abi wasn't as active as they liked (not in a bad way) but they almost wanted to keep us at the hospital. There was no room at the hospital at the time so the doctor prescribed a lot of walking and for us to go to our already scheduled appointment that afternoon.
After the appointment we decided to follow through with our next NST on Wednesday morning. This was quite disappointing to say the least.
Today we had the NST and Abi is doing just fine. Praise God that she is doing fine and we have no worries at this point. There are no concerns today so they weren't as worried about getting us into the hospital today. On top of that there was no room and there was already one lady waiting to be induced. We were really really hoping to be kept at the hospital and not allowed to go home.
The end result is that our originally scheduled time to be induced has been moved up from Friday at 6AM to Thursday at 6PM. While this is only 12 hours sooner than originally planned, it is still better than nothing.
Now we wait and hope that there is room at the hospital tomorrow. We plan to arrive early in hopes that we'll be able to get it. Our prayer at this point is that the labor will start between now and when we go to the hospital so that they will let us stay.
I can't tell you how hard this week has been on me mentally. I'm ready for Abi to be here. It's been hard with the back and forth to the hospital and nothing coming out of it (and trying to work in between the different appointments). Steph is doing much better but is just as ready for Abi to be here. We pray that she will be with us soon so that we can move on. When we were told last week that we were scheduled to be induced this upcoming Friday I didn't think anything of it. Now, continually getting closer, it has been much tougher than I ever expected. It's more than just an appointment to have a routine procedure done. There are many more variables that can cause the situation to change many times each day.
We appreciate the prayers of everyone as we go through the next 48 hours. Hopefully by then we'll have pictures to post of Abi for everyone to see.
Saturday, September 13, 2008
The Day that Came and Went
Well, here we are at the end of 9/13/2008 (the due date for Abi to arrive) with no Abi in our arms. Both Steph and I are quite ready (she is more than I for obvious reasons) for her to join us. The wagers for who would guess the due date have come and gone with no one winning and many are disappointed that Abi didn't bring them the victory.
Based on our Non-Stress Test that was done at the hospital yesterday, Abi is quite comfortable where she's at (much to mommy's frustration). Abi is not worried at all and doesn't seem to be concerned about the journey she will be going through soon. Little does she know that she cannot stay there forever.
In hopes of persuading Abi to make a move, I gave her a stern talking to today. I let her know that if she could see herself that she isn't really that comfortable and that there is much better food out here. I told her to do her excercises and start making her way out but she didn't listen. According to Steph's mom we're getting exactly what she had asked for many years ago; a child as stubborn as Steph was.
Our doctor came up with the plan this week. If Abi doesn't show up by Tuesday we've got another NST scheduled in the morning and a check-up that afternoon. Depending on how both of those go, if Abi is still being stubborn and is content where she is, Steph will be induced on Friday at 6AM. We're praying that it doesn't get to be that long but if it does we at least know that we'll have Abi in our arms sometime on Friday (hopefully not Saturday).
Stay tuned for the updates as we go through this leg of this journey. Below is a picture of Steph at 40 weeks 0 days.
Monday, September 1, 2008
My Wife
My wife is the most wonderful woman that I know. I'm so proud of her for how strong she has been during our (primarily hers) pregnancy. She has been lucky enough to not have any major complications to this point (38 weeks) and the movement from her belly has been quite entertaining.
No matter what we've had to do, Steph has been up for the challenge. She's worked with me on remodeling the two front bedrooms in our house, all while trying to ignore the clutter that exploded into the rest of the house. I love her for how willing she has been for all of the projects we've wanted to get done prior to Abi joining is. She even helped out with our Miter saw while working on the flooring and baseboards. If it wasn't for her work (and her Mom's help) the bead-board in Abi's room would not have been done.
We've now entered a new phase of our lives & marriage as Steph is no longer working. Her last day with Warner Co. Jewelers was last Friday. At this point we're transitioning into a single income family and it is going to be quite the challenge. Of course, I expect the house to be spotless now that she'll be home (OK, that's clearly a joke). Our house will be transformed into more of home and I expect that Steph is now going to come into her own as a mother. We're prepared for the coming phase of adding our first child and look forward to what God has for us.
God definitely has a lot planned for us in the near future. We're prepared (as much as we can be) for the challenges, struggles and joy that we're going to experience as we walk with God and raise our children. Steph encourages me in many different ways to strive to be the Godly father/husband/role model that our family needs.
I guess I can't say much more than I really love my wife and know that she is going to be the best mother around (we know that there are other good mothers, but my wife will be the best, no matter what comes up).
Steph - I LOVE YOU!!!
No matter what we've had to do, Steph has been up for the challenge. She's worked with me on remodeling the two front bedrooms in our house, all while trying to ignore the clutter that exploded into the rest of the house. I love her for how willing she has been for all of the projects we've wanted to get done prior to Abi joining is. She even helped out with our Miter saw while working on the flooring and baseboards. If it wasn't for her work (and her Mom's help) the bead-board in Abi's room would not have been done.
We've now entered a new phase of our lives & marriage as Steph is no longer working. Her last day with Warner Co. Jewelers was last Friday. At this point we're transitioning into a single income family and it is going to be quite the challenge. Of course, I expect the house to be spotless now that she'll be home (OK, that's clearly a joke). Our house will be transformed into more of home and I expect that Steph is now going to come into her own as a mother. We're prepared for the coming phase of adding our first child and look forward to what God has for us.
God definitely has a lot planned for us in the near future. We're prepared (as much as we can be) for the challenges, struggles and joy that we're going to experience as we walk with God and raise our children. Steph encourages me in many different ways to strive to be the Godly father/husband/role model that our family needs.
I guess I can't say much more than I really love my wife and know that she is going to be the best mother around (we know that there are other good mothers, but my wife will be the best, no matter what comes up).
Steph - I LOVE YOU!!!
Our latest project
Well, it's been a while since I've posted to our blog and this time I can say that I haven't done anything (that I think) to embarrass myself this time.
Once we got Abi's room done (she's still not here yet), I moved on to my next major project. Before we left for our vacation to Oregon we purchased a 75 gallon fish tank and stand. It was quite a decision to make as our prior tank was only 40 gallons and was doing pretty well (whenever we cleaned it).
After quite a bit of work and only having to buy a few things (including a sump and pump to filter the water) we've got our new aquarium up and running. All of our existing fish have made the move well so far. We only found one of them in the overflow area of the tank and put them back in the main tank once we found them.
What has been grabbing the most of our attention this weekend was the additions to the tank. We purchased two freshwater Crayfish for the tank. They're each about 3-4" from claw to tail when extended and they're a lot of fun to watch. They've found their own caves in the tank and have proceeded to dig them out so they can be the only ones in them. The younger one (shorter claws) seems to be more energetic (borderline ADHD) and has spent countless time running around the tank doing laps. The older one (longer & more colorful claws) seems to like to stay secluded and only come out to eat.
They don't seem to be bothering the other fish at all and are fun to watch.
Here are some pictures of our new tank and those who call it home. Our plan is to eventually switch out to cichlids but we're not quite ready for that yet.
Let us know what you think!
Once we got Abi's room done (she's still not here yet), I moved on to my next major project. Before we left for our vacation to Oregon we purchased a 75 gallon fish tank and stand. It was quite a decision to make as our prior tank was only 40 gallons and was doing pretty well (whenever we cleaned it).
After quite a bit of work and only having to buy a few things (including a sump and pump to filter the water) we've got our new aquarium up and running. All of our existing fish have made the move well so far. We only found one of them in the overflow area of the tank and put them back in the main tank once we found them.
What has been grabbing the most of our attention this weekend was the additions to the tank. We purchased two freshwater Crayfish for the tank. They're each about 3-4" from claw to tail when extended and they're a lot of fun to watch. They've found their own caves in the tank and have proceeded to dig them out so they can be the only ones in them. The younger one (shorter claws) seems to be more energetic (borderline ADHD) and has spent countless time running around the tank doing laps. The older one (longer & more colorful claws) seems to like to stay secluded and only come out to eat.
They don't seem to be bothering the other fish at all and are fun to watch.
Here are some pictures of our new tank and those who call it home. Our plan is to eventually switch out to cichlids but we're not quite ready for that yet.
Let us know what you think!
We missed something
I just realized that we never posted pictures of our vacation to Oregon in July. So to catch up here are a few of our adventure.
my husband the tourist
this is the view from the office building where Alli works, Downtown Portland would look much better except for the smoke from the California wild fires
just a cute picture of Josh and I at Camp 18 on the way to the Oregon Coast
at camp 18 there are these amazing cinnamon rolls that are the size of dinner plates. Ben ate the whole thing and wanted to share in the "pregnant belly" picture
This is Cannon Beach on the Oregon coast, this beach was used in the opening scenes of the Goonies movie, this is where we started our Goonies tour.
Second stop on the tour was the jail house from the movie
This is the beautiful view of Astoria, the bridge in the picture goes to Washington. which we took advantage of and took a detour to another state for a few minutes.
Last stop on the Goonies tour, this is Mikey's House
no tour would be complete without Ben doing the truffle shuffle
The six of us all enjoying amazing Cajun mac & cheese, super yummy!Really Big trees in the Avenue of the Giants
Our adventure lead us to Pismo for the 4th of July then back to Fresno. It was a great, but long, trip and we enjoyed our traveling companions Jon and Jolie. We'll have to do it again when the babies are a little older!
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